Since I write Romantic Suspense novels, I called ten couples I know and asked them a few simple questions about their marriages. The people’s ages were from twenty-four to eighty-three. Some were newlyweds, some have been married to one another for over fifty years, and two couples have had more than one spouse.
One of the survey questions was how do they keep their marriage strong. Here are a few of the answers I received.
- “Not a day goes by that we don’t kiss good morning and good night.”
- “Laughter. We laugh at each other’s funny comments or together at a wacky movie. Laughter binds our souls.”
- “We hold hands, hug, and kiss in public. You don’t have to be over-the-top with a public show of affection, but it’s nice to not hide your love.”
- “When one of us is taking a shower, the other will sneak in and then we lather each other with soap.”
- “Sometimes our connection is no more than a look in the eye, but that look can create a spark that burns hot.”
- “Whether we need to ask for forgiveness or give thanks, saying it out loud holds a lot of power.”
- “It’s nice to know your spouse is thinking of you when they call or text to ask how your day is going.”
- “We have cuddle time. That’s when I cuddle up in the crook of Gary’s shoulder. We talk or quietly hold one another. It’s very soothing and comforting.”
- “You’re not joined at the hip. Pursue your own hobbies and interests.”
- “We pray together. When you’re praying for each other, not yourself, you’re speaking from the heart.”
What are some ways you strengthen your marriage? Please leave a comment below.
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